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Gracie, the Graceless Pug

When my husband and I got married nearly two years ago, we felt it was the natural next step to bring a baby into our family too. So when we discovered a litter of pugs was on their collective way, we put dibs on one of the pups. And life hasn’t been the same since. When she was born, we went to visit Gracie who still needed to be with her mama. We were all instantly smitten and there was no turning back. 

This is when we fell in love with her.

This is when we fell in love with her.

She was quirky from the start, a bit of a literal underdog once we brought her home. She had trouble eating on her own and needed to be spoon fed so she could thrive. She gave us a little scare for a few days not being able to keep food down. I was determined. Blessed to be home working, I was able to snuggle this little sweet pea all day and keep her warm and feeling secure.

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Such working conditions!

I had to endure such intense cuteness as pictured above. Having to look at that little face all day while I transcribed, I’m telling you…the struggle is real. No one tells you how (not) hard it is to have a tiny, warm, snuggly puppy cuddled up on you all day. 

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Gracie and her friend Pookie.

As Gracie grew in size and independence, she gained a stuffed animal friend (above). Pookie became a sometimes snuggle buddy.  No one told Gracie that friends don’t chew off other friends’ eyes.  She’s a bit of a canine klutz complete with irrational fears. Just the sight of a silent acoustic guitar literally makes her tail hang between her legs, ears pinned back, and she trembles.  If she even gets mildly in the vicinity of the washing machine or the wood stove, she goes into rigors, legs outstretched and toes spread apart and her little front legs wrap tightly around your arm or leg or whatever body part she can reach and she is frozen in terror. Weird pug anyhow. 

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Reluctant forever friends.

Lillie, our beloved beabrador had seniority by far. She was four years old when Gracie came onto the scene, forever changing the dynamic.  Lillie didn’t quite know what to think of Gracie or what to do with her. It seemed that Lillie was not amused that we had shaken up the dog balance in the house. Here was this bouncing, squeaking, high-pitched black thing pouncing on her periodically throughout the day (usually when Lillie was sleeping), as if to beg Lillie to spring to action and be her best playmate. If I didn’t know better, I’d say I often saw Lillie roll her eyes at Gracie and sigh, wishing she’d just leave her alone.  But then I’d catch rare moments like this (above) and think maybe, just maybe, Lillie liked (tolerated) Gracie after all. 

Gracie, lately.

Gracie, lately.

Gracie is almost two now. She looks different with a mysterious fierce underbite. She has not lost her feistiness. Lillie has resigned herself to the fact that Gracie is a fixture in our family now. They fight and chase each other around the yard, but when one of them is wincing in her sleep or doing one of those body-wrenching heaves that you’re certain is going to produce some sort of dog alien, the other is the first to run to her canine pal’s side making sure there’s a full recovery. And that’s what I call puppy love. 

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Five Favorite Websites

We all have websites we visit on the regular, our virtual go-to’s for information, entertainment, and communication. Today I’m going to share five of my favorites and what draws me to visit them.  Besides the obvious sites, www.blogher.com and my personal blog, below are my five other favorites:

1. The Pioneer Woman 

Ree Drummond aka The Pioneer Woman is a part of the BlogHer family and I’ve been a faithful follower of Ree’s for years. Back when Ree only had a few thousand followers I was “with” her. She’s always had great content and being a photographer, her images are beautiful and inviting.  Well-known for her cooking talents and her show on the Food Network, she shares wonderful recipes on her site as well as homeschooling information, entertainment, and she has a love of her family, her dogs, and photographing pretty cool hotel rooms. Check out her books as well.

 

2.  Netflix

We all know what Netflix is, a site that streams movies and past seasons of TV shows. For a low cost you can enjoy access to this. Many folks are now using it in place of cable television. I most often watch Netflix while working out at the gym. Tuning into an episode or two of a TV series I’m currently binge watching makes time running on the treadmill pass more smoothly.

 

3.  The Balanced Life

As long as we’re talking about fitness, this is a great site for Pilates info and workouts. Robin offers great encouragement and shares her knowledge.  This is really good stuff to do at home in addition to your gym workout or in place of it if you can’t get to the gym or the weather isn’t desirable for participating in outdoor physical activities.

4.  Pinterest

If you’re not already on Pinterest, I highly suggest checking it out. Whether you’re planning a wedding or looking for something to make for dinner, it’s all there. I have boards for everything from fashion to writing tips.  You can find inspiration for putting together an outfit for a special occasion and find great DIY tips for home, wedding, and crafts.

 

5.  Thrifty Decor Chick

This is a really fun site. Even if you don’t do DIY projects, there are some gorgeous photos here of finished projects. It really inspires you to repurpose some found items and spruce up your home with your personal touches.

What are some of your favorite sites to visit? What makes them your favorite?

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Five Things I Learned from Alexander, His Family, and His Very Bad Day

Disclaimer:  If you haven’t seen Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day, don’t read this yet! But do go see it. It’s good!

This weekend at an all-night movie lock-in for high schoolers, we got to see Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No-Good, Very Bad Day. Really, those adjectives are a bit of an understatement.  Their day was really chaotic to say the least, but overall, they survived and at the end of it, were still a good, solid, loving family. Really, that matters more than anything.

 

I learned some things from Alexander and his family and here are my top five:

1. Teamwork within a couple really matters. Alexander’s dad was suffering a job loss. Several months into his job search he was still at home being “fommy” (a new term I learned during this viewing), a “father mommy.” He was a stay-at-home dad and managing pretty brilliantly. Even though he was going through some personal difficulties sure to be a challenge, he supported his wife who’d returned to the workforce and he became her biggest cheerleader. She, in turn, appreciated how he kept the family together and running at home.

2. Sometimes you get the girl after all. Alexander liked the very pretty, popular girl who seemed sure to be out of his reach. After all, he admitted his life was a series of bad days. Even after he set her textbook ablaze, she saw through the craziness of his life and gave him a chance after realizing he really was a good guy.

3. Don’t answer the phone while driving.  Just don’t. Alexander’s brother learned this the hard way. It set into motion a series of smallish disasters and all in the name of trying to keep his girlfriend from being mad at him.

4. Show up for your siblings. Despite their insane day, the family “showed up” for each person’s event.  Big brother got to his prom dinner (that ended with a pretty surprising and wise decision made on his part), sister got to perform (so to speak!) in her star role of her 8th grade play, and Alexander…well, he got his over-the-top birthday party after all.  The whole family was together to share in the ups and downs of it every step.  (And Australian animals (Alexander’s favorite) are quite fabulous).

5. Happy endings really are the best part of the movie. I still love whimsy and neatly sewn up endings where everyone is happy.  I’ll never change. Who doesn’t want a happy journey with the promise of a happy ending?

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Pumpkins, Winter Coats, and Aunt Jemima

Pumpkins, winter coats, and Aunt Jemima…What do these three items have in common? In my family, Halloween is the common denominator. Pumpkins are obvious. If you live in Michigan as I do, winter coats are an often unfortunate requirement for our Halloween costumes. You primp and prep for just the perfect costume, be it Raggedy Ann as it was for me one year or a baseball player as it was for my sister that same year (thanks to our older brother’s uniform). More often than not, once you reached that premium look you were striving for and were ready to hit the streets for that much sought-after candy, Mom stopped you.  “Make sure you wear your coat!” Heavy sigh. Seriously? It covers the whole costume! But Mom insisted so you did it. 

 

Growing up in a Christian home we still observed Halloween for what it meant to us at the time…dressing up as a non-scary character and having fun. I attended many Halloween parties as a child, bobbing for apples and trying to bite an elusive doughnut hanging from a string, all the while laughing with good friends. My Mom would make and painstakingly frost the pumpkin cutout sugar cookies she was nearly famous for and put up a few decorations. She’d buy candy, enough for the few neighborhood children who might stop by and special ones for us and little cousins she knew would be visiting. There was nothing frightening surrounding this day for us. It was about fun and love as we watched Mom prepare and enjoy what she did best, serving others and making them feel special, even on Halloween.

 

As for Aunt Jemima, well, that was a costume Mom cooked up for me one year. I think I was about 8 years old, too young to resist this crazy idea. But God love her, my Mom thought it was somehow perfect for me. She dressed me just like you’d think, painted face, a long prairie-type skirt, topping it off with a head scarf. The winter coat seemed to coordinate perfectly somehow. I remember wondering what on earth she was thinking with this costume choice. She was dressing me up as the syrup bottle lady!  I was unhappy with her creation and embarrassed when folks opened their doors, laughed, and one lady even made me stay at the door so she could call her husband to see me. Later, I was happy to realize that Aunt Jemima (as she appeared on the syrup bottle) was jolly. She had plump cheeks (I had plump cheeks at age 8), she looked happy, and signified something my Mom held dear, cooking. My Mom took a shine to these syrup bottles so much so that she collected them for decoration. What was once my worst Halloween memory somehow spun into a funny, joyful one.

 

Enjoy your day however you choose to acknowledge it. Be safe and kind, as you would any other day. And remember, 54 days until Christmas!